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Originally Posted by
MangyCarface
I can forgive the kid who wants to fit in and starts bumming a smoke once in awhile and then finds themselves addicted, or the single mom who needs her smoke breaks at work because god knows she won't have the time to decompress and have a moment solely for herself when she gets home.
But nobody really
needs a cigerette unless they already smoke. The feel good factor from a cigerette are chemicals that already exist in the body naturally, except that smoking causes the body to stop producing them because there is an outside source (the cigerette) providing those chemicals, so that craving is the body wanting more of the chemical it was already producing, but stopped.
Incidently, the reason i started playing WoW many moons ago was because so many of my friends did, and a girl i was into played it also and actually asked me to join her. A friend gave me a 2 week invite and then i paid for my first 3 month subscription. Is that much different from trying your first cigerette to socially fit in?
In the end i realised they were wasting their lives away on it, 2 of them had ran out of money playing it and could/would never go out, one had lost his job, one had lost his girlfriend over it and several had dropped grades; then when as i got to know my crush a lot better i realised she was a shallow husk of a human being and thought "fuck this shit" and cancelled my subscription. It also helped my decision that most of them resented playing with me as i would actually read the quests, none of them had the patience to wait for me to immerse myself in the narrative so i spent most of level 10-60 playing alone or with a stranger.
As for smoking being cool, i guess that's where you come from and the people around you. A huge portion of my friends smoke (more than 50%) and none of them like the idea of me smoking. They'll share and lend cigerettes/rollies with each other, but if i'm out socially drinking and think i might try one none of them let me, saying "you don't want to, it's unhealthy and expensive and i don't want you to get hooked". None of them really see it as a particularly cool thing to do, it's just something they got from a generation ago. But that's just another of my anecdotes.